What is at the heart of power?

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  by Kris Kile   I mentioned in the last blog post that the two most influential thought leaders for me regarding what trust is and how to establish and maintain it are John Gottman and Fernando Flores.   Today, we … Read More

What is trust?

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by Kris Kile I struggled to figure out how to start this blog post. To me, trust is such a huge topic that I got stuck in my desire to lay a solid, yet easily comprehended foundation to what we … Read More

The Secret Sauce That Accelerates Results to a Different Stratosphere

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by Kris Kile Today, we start an exploration into the dynamics of trust. The overall topic we are still exploring that this falls under is creating effective action for optimal results. When it comes to powerful engagement and effective action I cannot … Read More

The Final (& Perhaps Most important) Key to Mastering Requests

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by Kris Kile Before we dive into the fascinating realm of  trust in our next blog post, today we focus on what could be the most important key to mastering requests.   To reiterate, the end game here is to master … Read More

One Key to Becoming a Master of Effective Requests

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by Kris Kile     Next week we will shift a bit from considerations regarding promises and requests. If you recall, the entire discussion of promises and requests has been within the context of creating effective action and desired results.   … Read More

Strategies That Limit The Power of Request

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by Kris Kile   Taking a deeper look at what gets in the way of consistently utilizing the power of request in your life is a short cut to discovering unconscious limiting conversations.   The complete list is almost endless. … Read More

Why We Don’t Make Requests More Often

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by Kris Kile   In our last blog I asked you to respond to the following questions. 1. What assumptions do you have about yourself that get in the way of making requests of others? 2. What assumptions do you … Read More

Why So Few Requests?

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by Kris Kile   In the last blog post, I mentioned that, in my experience, making requests is the most underutilized conversation for action today.   Assuming this has some truth to it, what are the primary factors contributing to this? … Read More

The Most Under-Utilized Conversation For Action

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by Kris Kile   We have been spending some time on exploring the depths of promise. Today, we take a look at the companion to promise, and that is “request.” Some say that promise and request are the only two … Read More